I Hate My Inlaws!

SIL, Mommy Will Never Change

Posted on Fri, Dec. 31, 2021 at 09:31 am

SIL, your mother will never truly be happy, and she will never truly approve of you.

Now you are thinking about giving her a grandchild. You and I both know that you love your independent life (and who could blame you). Please trust me when I tell you that being a parent is hard, and at your age I'd think you'd not want to take the risk of having a needy child.

Did you know that the chances of that in older mothers multiplies? Did you also realize it can run in families? I can speak from experience that it is very challenging.

Do yourself a favor and don't allow your mother to belittle and otherwise manipulate you into thinking you are inadequate without children.

I would hate to see you rush to find someone (who's not up to the job) willing to give you a child just to appease your mother temporarily. I was a single mother once, and trust me when I tell you that it is hard, and a failed marriage also not so fun.

Think about it. Enjoy your life and ignore your manipulative mother.

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