I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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It's mils birthday

Posted on Fri, Jul. 16, 2021 at 04:00 pm

I was so happy to have a second family with the ils but they've done nothing but be rude and mean to me. I gave mil a birthday gift one year. When my husband left the room she told me she hated it and was really nasty. She gushed over it in front of her son. If you don't like a gift just toss or regift, why be mean?

Now on her birthday I buy myself a gift for having to deal with her all these years. Her gift is up to her son now. Most of the time she gets nothing. I used to buy nice gifts, cards, wrap it beautifully. Her son doesn't put in that effort when he does remember. This year I got a bonus at work. I'm buying emerald earrings for myself for mils birthday.. Next time I see mil I'll be wearing them and smiling to myself. It's my little secret.
Happy Birthday mil!

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Hey BIL

Posted on Fri, Jul. 16, 2021 at 01:51 pm

Did you enjoy your vacation visiting “the Paris of the South”? What an interesting coincidence...staying 40 miles from our beautiful new mountain home. I can only think your second wife planned that, should have called your brother for lunch (I am sure that would not have been allowed). If you only knew the truth but that’s ok...I saw the theme...”This is how we do it”...correct. NICE social media postings especially the ones by your step daughter...pot, kettle, black...hillbillies. MIL and FIL you must watch🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷

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How's That Liver Doing?

Posted on Fri, Jul. 16, 2021 at 10:07 am

FIL, why is it that even after a huge health scare, every single photo of you has you holding alcohol? "It's our cuulllllture!". If that's true, what does that say about your culture? 2.) I know that it is NOT true. It's just that drinkers hang out with other drinkers, so you wouldn't notice the rest of the population who doesn't feel the need to numb their minds just to get through life. For example, the chess club doesn't have photos of alcohol (but, then again, chess is classy).

You look like shit with your face all puffy, and with that tell-tale leathered look and pink cheeks that comes from a lifetime of drink. I think I just now realized why you never communicate with your son: you're struggling to find enough brain cells that haven't been drowned in alcohol.

What a proud moment for you. Don't worry, if your grandchildren ever remember that you exist and think to ask about you one day, I'll lead with "He was a miserable man who had nothing to do with us and spent much of his time killing brain cells with alcohol".

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Common Sense

Posted on Thu, Jul. 15, 2021 at 12:44 am

Flying monkey if my husband is so close to his “sisters “ you wouldn’t need to plead with him to make up with them on their behalf. They would be able to work things out on their own, matter of fact things wouldn’t have gotten so out of hand. Your family isn’t close and welcoming, if it were you wouldn’t have been so threatened by our marriage taking my husband away from his family. Your family unity is based on guilt trips and manipulation not true affection.

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It feels so good

Posted on Mon, Jul. 12, 2021 at 05:11 pm

To watch you deteriorate into the black dark abyss of dementia. Your precious daughter has abandoned you. At this point you have completley lost your mind. Im glad. You are an evil wicked woman.

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The six year anniversary present is . . .

Posted on Mon, Jul. 12, 2021 at 12:16 pm

Oh, boy. SIL has to crow about being married for six years, a couple for ten, and get everybody's admiration and effusive praise. What a drama queen. Did you know that the sixth year anniversary is the Iron Anniversary? As in iron skillets that you can hit each other over the head with. Or, if you count it as a tenth year anniversary, it's tin or aluminum. As in the aluminum that collects in your brain as you drink your way to early onset dementia. We're on silver, but who cares about a measly 25 years? You're on fire, girl.

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The shitty inlaws

Posted on Sat, Jul. 10, 2021 at 11:30 am

Silent treatments and
Ignoring me are a form of manipulation. You know what after all these years I was trying to find a way to connect to you both and the rest of the family. I am done.
Think it's fun to exclude me do you?
Well guess what.
I have 2 sides to me. I am a good person with a big heart. I have endured a lot of pain in my life and I had two choices.. to become mean nasty bitter and hate the world. Or to Florish thrive and rise from the dark to the light.
I chose the light.
When you excluded me on the last event I know you chose to be toxic and think it will be less "stress" on you by doing that. But because your an alcoholic you don't seem to have much of a brain left and have no strategy.
That's okay though because after all these years you'll THINK that I'll beg to come back and see you and kiss your ass and play your game.
Here's the deal.
You exclude me from your get together.. your excluded from all of mine.
I am not welcome in your house ..
You are not welcome in mine...
It's called mirroring back.
It gets even better !!
I will no longer be attending your stupid shitty family dinners .. Yay!!
Instead I'll send my husband along without me!!
But oh, wait .. he hasn't gone in quite a while? That's fucking weird isn't it?
Hmm... Wonder what's going on there?
There's more...
When we have a child your middle name will not be in the child's name.
When we get married we're going to have just the 2 of us and oh wait your not invited and neither are your shitty adult kids.
When you whine and complain and try to chew your son out about this isn't your fault your going to get put into your place.
When you treat people like SHIT .. you know EXACTLY what you are doing so there is NO feeling bad on my end.
I feel liberated, RELIEF that all of the nastiness on your end and all the trying on my end came to an end.
In your culture and faith family is the centre. And I suggest you pray hard and cry yourself to sleep because I am not going to explain to you how hurtful nasty narcissistic and how much of a bulky you are.
You'd just hang up the phone or start yelling and say are you done being irate yet!?
When the kids grow up and you disrespect me still guess what it's called you have NO grandchildren from your son.
You disrespect me you have no right to do that infront of my children.
You see darkness and light do exist. I will do this in the most healthy way possible and it makes me feel so FREE!
BEST OF ALL your son knows it wasn't my fault what you did that day.
He felt bad for me.
No longer do I have to attend your fucking multiple birthdays get together family dinners weddings christenings. Its ALL over.
I can sit at home if he visits you and watch TV go for a hike.. masturbate and feel Grrrrreat! Like Tony the tiger. Weo!
Evwr heard that saying," Watch who you fuck with.?
Well DONT FUCK WITH ME!
I am stronger than you are mentally physically and emotionally.
I am a better woman than you COULD EVER EVEN TRY TO BE AND IT COMES NATURALLY.
I DONT HAVE TO TRY!!
when you said I'm not family and I found out. Guess what?
It works both ways.
You aren't mine either.
Boom! (Mic drop)

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Yawn. You're predictable.

Posted on Thu, Jul. 08, 2021 at 04:34 pm

Ok, then, bring it.

Bring you, basement dwelling BIL, and the golden kid over for a chat. Just know we have receipts and witnesses.

If you upload that video one more time there WILL be court action. If you hack my phone, sign into MY social media to send messages to my friends or stalk any of my children then lawyers will become involved.

I know about everything.

To this point I've taken the high road. No, not high like BIL the addict. I've made the conscious decision NOT to seek revenge or engage in your petty game play. Things change.

It takes pretty sick people to secretly record someone and then use that to hurt innocent family and friends all in the name of revenge. Incredibly sick.

I know what you did to my Dad too.

Sick and sad.

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Paying Attention, MIL?

Posted on Wed, Jul. 07, 2021 at 11:57 am

I realize that asking if you're paying attention is a bit of a waste of time. For some time now, my DH has been "punishing" you whenever you send him a stupid/inappropriate message by completely ignoring it and not responding to it in any way. He'll "reward" you whenever you actually manage a decent message (without any passive-aggressive digs and other toxic, stupid shit). You'd think you'd realize by now that we are not going to dignify your stupid-assed messages with a response by now. I guess you're a bit slow? That's the only conclusion one can come to.

Recently you sent a stupid-assed message to him on Father's Day (which you'll notice was completely ignored), and yet when you managed a decent message a week later, he responded. Oh, please let me correct that: **I** responded. You see, he cares so little about the stupid shit you send him that much of the time he doesn't even read it. I am the one who ends up noticing that a message from you hadn't been responded to yet. I'll then go in, determine if it's more ridiculous, passive-aggressive, thoughtless bullshit or not. If it passes the test, I respond on his behalf.

The thing is, MIL, he used to care about every single time you reached out to him. He was craving your love and affection...you know, that normal connection one wants to have with one's mother. Over time, he realized that you simply are not capable of that. You've sent so many cruel, thoughtless, invalidating, mean-spirited, or just plain stupid messages to him/us over the years. He's done with it. He no longer craves a closer connection with you, because it's always so painful even just dealing with you on the infrequent basis that is currently in place.

You're a sad, miserable, catty old woman who clearly has nothing better to do with her time than to find moments to dig at her adult children. You try to tear them down and bring them down to your miserable level. Thankfully, my husband has MY family and friends to validate and care about him/us regularly. They are a constant source of support and joy.

Wallow in your own miserable juices, Honey. We'll keep patting you on the head (when you aren't being completely toxic) and keep moving forward with life. Maybe one day you'll wake up, but I'm kinda doubting it.

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i keep winning

Posted on Tue, Jul. 06, 2021 at 03:53 pm

you keep hating on me in more forms than one and i keep winning! lmao....you keep talking shit and karma has had his fair share at you and your family over the past 12 years. WOW WHEN WILL YOU LEARN. DUMB BITCH. KEEP HATING, KEEP TALKING SHIT, KEEP BEEING AN EVIL WOMAN. AND YOU KNOW WHAT HAS HAPPENED OVER THE PAST 12 YEARS? VINDICATION. VALIDATION. KARMA. IT ALWAYS COMES AROUND. GOOD FOR ME, BAD FOR YOU. SO KEEP IT UP! BITCH. YOU AND YOUR SALTY ASS FACE, SOUR ASS PUSSY (CUZ IM SURE IT SMELLS THE WAY YOU LOOK)....YOU HAVE BEEN SUCH A HATEFUL PERSON...WHY? YOU SWEAR YOU ARE RIGHT AND YOU TRIED TO TURN YOUR WHOLE FAMILY AGAINST ME? WELL GUESS WHAT BITCH? I DONT GIVE A FUCK AT THIS POINT. ILL GLADLY TELL EVERYONE HOW U ARE AND TELL THEM YOUR BUSINESSS BC YOU CANT BE A DECENT PERSON. KEEP IT UP! SEE WHAT HAPPENS BITCH! CHECKMATE!

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