I Hate My Inlaws!

I made myself the fall guy

Posted on Sat, Aug. 01, 2009 at 12:12 pm

When my cousin, and friend, married my husbands brother and she became my sister-in-law, we had a lot in common and were very good friends. We took turns having diner at each others houses, we went shopping together, we all went to restaraunts and family outings together, we would all go to the movies... it was all great.

I dont know how i didnt know it at the time, but she started running around on my BIL. I would keep her child while she was going to what I now know were non-existant doctor and dentist appointments...etc.

Then on day another SIL and my FIL called me early in the morning and told me that they had caught her bringing another man home, and they were there then and they wanted me to get pictures of them together. I did not believe she was doing that, I thought she was too smart to do that.

Like a dumbass I waited across the road with a camera to get a picture. I felt foolish after a while, and decided to just go knock on the door, with the excuse to get the keys to my son's truck that he loaned her while hers was being repaired.

She came to the door i supose she was naked, she hid behind the door, her hair was all messed up and she was breathing like she had been exercising. It did appear that I had interupted her having sex. She was acting very figgity and strange, and did not invite me in as usual. She didnt want to give me my son's keys, I lied and told her I had to carry it to have a stero installed. She gave me the keys, reluctantly, and I left.

My FIL called me again and told me that one of my other BIL's had seen her pick him up down the road and his truck was there, and did I know who it was. I was still not sold on the idea that she was with another man, but curisoty killed the cat, and I, (and my daughter and my Sister weer with me) drove to where FIL had said she had picked up the man, and sure enough there was a truck there.

Meanwhile back at the ranch.... SIL didnt have a way to go, and needed to pick her child up from school. (I earlier did call her to see if I could pick up her child, even if she was with another man.. she was still my friend and I didnt want her to get in trouble,She refused to let me get her kid from school.) She then borrowed my FIL's new truck to go pick her kid from school, and they were watching her as she stopped by her house and picked the man up... to take him back to his truck.

Also meanwhile..... the BIL that saw them that morning together was headed to where the truck was to catch them. .... Also another SIL took off from work to catch her drop him back to his truck. I did not know any of this at the time, they were talking on cell phones, and I did not have one.

OK then... as we were leaving from the location the mans truck was parked I met my SIL in FIL's new truck and I did see that there was a man with her, she saw me and I swear I could read her lips go... "OH SHIT!"
She quickly turned around, there was a little dirt loop on th edge of the road. I did kinda have her blocked in, and she had a terrified look on her face. I was realy in shock, I didnt know what I should do. All at once there was this truck coming very fast behind me,and I didnt know it was the BIL that had originally caught her, so I drove on. Then he tried to block her in. Then coming from ahead of me is my other SIL, to catch her with this man. I was not in on this plan, and did not know they were all converging to trap her.

Anyways, SIL that was with another man took of driving fast to get away, the man was still in the truck with her. And BIL& other SIL took chase to her. I did not chase them. I went home.

BIL & SIL chased her all over the place, they said sometimes going 100mph. Finally they drove back to in front of the school, and the man got out and jumped into the backend of a high school students truck, and left with him. SIL and SIL that was cheating got into a confratation. I dont know what realy went down, i was not there.

This whole thing was realy blowing my mind. And I realy couldnt believe she was stupid enough to bring a man to her house. ( we all live in a hay field... all together like a family compound, we all can see each others houses and theres no place to hide)

Not much later SIL that was caught cheating's mother calls me and trys to tell me that SIL was not with another man, that it was her dressed up like a man, and they were trying to prove that we were spying on her and making up stories on her and bull like that. I told her she didnt need to be trying that with me, and it was the husband they need to talk to. Then she told me that all you J----'s think youre so smart, we'll see whos smart after this.

Wow, I didnt know what that was all about. Anyways SIL that was cheating got thier kid from school, went to the bank and took out thier money, so Im told, and went to her mothers house.

I know she didnt want a divorce, I didnt want them to divorce ether, as a matter of fact I was the only one that wanted them to get back together. FIL was calling lawyers, MIL was bad mouthing her, all the other sil's and bil's were telling BIL to get rid of her. I was very unpopular when I told BIL that they could get over this and put it in the past. That the only one who would suffer was thier child.

Now, on SIL's behalf, I would like to say that I can relate to what was going on in her life. She had just lost a lot of weight, and maybe had never felt like she was ...i dont know, sexy or desireable. And it might have went to her head when other men noticed her. And I do know that even the best people make bad choices and terrible mistakes. Im sure she wished she'd never made this one. I know she loves her husband and child.

I dont know why she did it, but SIL that was cheating started telling people that ME and other SIL beat her up, that one of us was holding her down and the other one was kicking her. TOTALY NOT TRUE!

Then I hear she went to church and had them to pray for ME and MY marriage. Alot of times I would meet up while shopping with women from that church, and they had the nerve to come to me and say, "Youre lucky to have a husband that would take you back after what youve done."......I'd be like what??? Huh???

A day or two after BIL took SIL back, I as at home, minding my own business when one SIL calls to tell me she had caught them day before yesterday, and another SIL had seen them the day before, and they had to work, and she wanted me to see if she met him down the road again or whatever.

The dumbass that I am... me and my daughter went to drive up the road to see if this man was sitting beside the road waiting on her. We didnt see him, and headed home. Then as we reached our road we saw his truck stop in front of her house and someone got out, then the truck drove away. And stupid me.... I told the inlaws. FIL askes me to please stake her out and make sure I get pictures. I was a dummy again.

SIL is freaking out in house, and tries to get me to drive away from neighbors drive way. Her mother comes over and yells at us, her brothers wife comes and she just stands there looking at us. After a while my daughter stays there and I head back to my house. SIL that was caught comes out in the yard and flags me down. I stop to talk to her, then she immediently gets on her cordless phone, right in front of me and calls her H, and starts fake crying telling him that Im there AGAIN, and im trying to fight and Im cursing her out. And that he needs to come home and "take care of me." And I go like "what, I just stopped and I haven tsaid a word." Then she says "thats her , shes calling me a bitch again.".... I just drove off and went home.

Then it was getting to crutial time where she had to get her kid from school ,and H would be home soon. They did what looked like getting him out of the house...Her SIL drove her vechilce , i mean right jam-up to the front door, so close that when they opened the car door it almost touched the house. Then she sped away when "who-ever" got in.

Now, Im kinda peeved that she was telling people I beat her up and that it was ME who was caught with another man, and that fake phone call she'd just made and so on....

When her H comes in from work that evening, she pours on a act that eveyone ate up, even though they all knew what she had been doing and everything, she vowed i was lying about the man being there. Even though me and my daughter saw it, the whole family fell for her 'act.'

Later that night, me and my H went to FIL's and he told ME that I needed to support their marriage if they are trying to work things out, and that I needed to oppolige to HER.
This makes me mad. I was the one who wanted them to stay together, not them. And he made out to her that none of them had put me up to anything, and that I did all that on my own, and they didnt know anything about it.

.... OK , few days later we are all about to go 4 wheeler riding, and there is a crowd of people here at my house. Then here comes BIL on a 4wheeler, with SIL sitting behind him on the seat. Im thinkg, 'cool, all the stuff is over and its all going back to normal'
WRONG> He pulls up beside me and to where no one else could see her face she shoots me this smirk, like haha, i got FIL to tell YOU to oppligize to ME or something. I kinda snapped and had a out-of-body experience. I told her that I was the only one who was on her side till she started telling everyone she could that it was ME who did eveything she did. And told her she needed to tell her H that I was not over there cursing her and all that.. anyways I dont think anybody went riding after that.

Nowdays, I feel like Im on the shitlist and shes everyones angel. Thats what I get for being a dumbass, I know better these days. Her and MIL are best bud's she even handles thier money and business. Her and MIL go shopping
togetehr several times a week, vacations together etc...
And everyone around thinks that I was the unfaithful wife.

I guess her mother was right. They showed me who was smarter, but I never told I lie about the whole deal, and Iwont be the one answering that to God, they will... then maybe we'll see who's smart.

This all happened about 10 years ago, and me and cousin/SIL still dont speak, and she just lives next door.

I wish when FIL & SIL called, i would have just stayed home and forgot they called, all I did was make myself the FALL GUY.

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