I Hate My Inlaws!

One Dumb Bunny too many...

Posted on Fri, Feb. 09, 2018 at 11:36 am

SIL, where to begin?

Well, for starters, if you are going to consider someone "estranged" based on false statements made by someone who is truly sick... then you should probably clue the target in and let them know plans. That way they can be certain they stay away from you and don't try to make contact.

Furthermore, how about giving them the opportunity to address your concerns? Be honest... you never liked your BIL's awkward, overweight, ugly wife. (Yes,me.)You're using this situation as an excuse to publically justify your prejudice and, as educated and successful as you are, it's evident you must be self-aware. Wait, let me "dumb bunny" that down a bit, "You're a classic mean girl and you know it."

Also, my husband nor myself are scum. We might be struggling but we aren't giving up. You know what they say, "There but by the grace of God" go all of us. You will reap what you sow and you've got it made because the people you're hurting are the type that forgive in a heartbeat and would never treat you the way you're treating them. My husband is a very good man and a great father. He's been there for me over half of my life.

Know this, too, hun: I am not jealous of you. If my demeanor appears nervous and awkward when people are talking about you that's only because I'm nervous and awkward 24/7 and that's a basic part of my personality. Sorry to burst your "better than them" bubble but I really don't like you. I used to but after hearing about the real you I've lost all feelings about you. I'm just numb and you are nothing to me. So, be happy - I'm going to excitedly abide by your unannounced estrangement.

One more thing: Our MIL, the woman you accused of being an annoying gossip who only brings negativity. Well, she's like that because she's faced nothing but emotional abuse her entire life. She was torn apart by the men who were supposed to protect her. So, if venting a little bit helps her feel a little better I'll let her vent away. Even though I'm certain most of it is about me. I'm not mad at her and I pray that she didn't suffer other abuses as well.

Your attack against her made me feel sick. She loves you to the moon and back. She brags about you with such pride and enjoys sharing time with you. That's something I can only DREAM of from her. So, be thankful for what you've got, lady. Some of us would LOVE to have that from her.

She would NEVER treat you with the disregard you shoved at her with your ill informed online ranting.

Good luck, hun. I'm done.

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