complete frustration

Posted on Fri, Feb. 16, 2007 at 12:09 pm

When I first met my husband's family they were to good to be true. Including me in everything, calling to support through tough times. Then it all changed, literally the night of our wedding. My husband and i were separated for 5 minutes when we got back to the hotel b/c I went upstairs b/c a friend had my only room key and she was getting stuff out of our suit- I followed and later my husband's mother came up asking what was going on adn making sure everything was ok- i started to cry b/c I couldn't believe she was there and didn't say anything... then when my husband came up she came back in the room, stood between us, and said "I am not leaving until I know everything is ok". I began to ball because I had no idea that this is what my wedding night would be like... My husband never said a word about it to her. Recently my sister relapsed with cnacer after only 6 months of being off treatment. In the 3 weeks they have known not one of his family members have offered one word of support to me. They haven't even acknowldged it. Everyone thinks they are so great but I have come to realize it may be a fasade. My brother-in-law has recently been telling the family to include his girlfriedn in everything, specifically asking. I wonder if this is why they were so inclusive of me at first. Did my now husband do the same?

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