I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Girl Power

Posted on Thu, Apr. 19, 2018 at 08:38 am

My divorce is official. And we all lived happily ever after. Nope.

XH is still in jail. He will be for the next six months. He must have learned his lesson because he has not attempted to contact me. However, he has had his friends call me and beg me to take him back, give him another chance, he loves you, blah, blah, blah. I calmly described what my life was like with XH and the clan. Most apologized for calling. A few still continue to call. I'm keeping a log, as a few more RO may need to be issued.

XPIL, who are under house arrest, have not contacted me. However,they have signed me up for volumes of junk mail. There was a time this would have upset me. Not now. I laugh and have ordered a few things from the catalogs, purchased paint with a five dollar off coupon at from hardware store and received two free car washes. The rest I just toss. No worries.

I feel empowered! If they contact me, they will do more jail time. They now know I can and will press charges. Life is good.

More to come.

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MIL

Posted on Wed, Apr. 18, 2018 at 05:44 pm

Surely you realize that you are merely a fleeting thought to me? We see you when we must and then you become a distant memory as always because you are a non-factor in my life. Also, I'm sorry to hear that you think so highly of yourself that you actually believe I agree with your opinions. 10+ years and 3 kids later you can screw yourself if you're deluded enough to think I am in competition with you, lady. Well if that's what you think then congrats you have outdone me because that's a new level of hot messy psychobabble!? WTF?

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Clearly we did the right thing...

Posted on Wed, Apr. 18, 2018 at 01:14 pm

I can see so clearly now. FIL passed away while you we're bitching about yourself. You even complained about the gasping noises he made as he struggled to hang on. YOU COMPLAINED ABOUT GASPING NOISED FROM A DYING MAN! You evil C*NT! There, in that bed dying, was the only creature left in the universe that ever cared even a thread for you. You insufferable, unintelligent, insignificant POS! I never cared for FIL that much, but I know he did not deserve what you did to him. Use him up and when he got dimentia, you threw him away in the worst home possible. You enjoyed your life spending his money and enjoying yourself whilst he wasted away lonely in a home 2 miles from you. MIL, you beast! You vampire! You deserve the cancer that eats you. You have no friends, NO family left for you. You died too today as far as I am concerned. And when we decided to keep our distance, CLEARY we made the right choice! I am so glad we wont be seeing you again until the next funeral, here's hoping it's yours! Cheers!

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Manners

Posted on Wed, Apr. 18, 2018 at 11:01 am

I left my husband for a lot of reasons. The final straw was I asked him to make sure he was paying our income taxes properly (for a change!) because I inherited a little chunk of cash and didn’t want it being garnished because he’s incapable of managing his money.

Within a couple weeks I got the call from our state revenue Dept saying he’d failed to set up a payment plan & that I was also at risk of having assets seized. I filed for divorce and won my “innocent spouse” case with the IRS. But like I said this was only the final straw. A guy who fucks up this bad doesn’t only do it once.

So a few months go by and I have my stepkids over at my new place visiting. They have questions about why I left but are clearly afraid to ask. I don’t really encourage or discourage it. It’s tricky- you don’t want to give them inappropriate info or anything that condemns the other party. But you don’t want them only hearing the other side. I decided long ago I’d let them hear the other side and figure out on their own what their family members are like. All I’d say is I wasn’t a good fit.

So I said that more or less. I said that my former in-laws, the kids’ grandparents, great-grandparents and aunts, preferred their mom, the first wife. I didn’t give details.

I figured that was innocuous enough. And it was clearly true. For years as a newlywed I’d hear about how the first ex wife was invited over for Christmas tree decorating (instead of me) and I’d see framed photos of her everywhere including in the bedroom they gave us at their ski house.

To say they never cared how I felt would be an understatement. They were at times aggressively unwelcoming. Like the time SIL was hell bent on physically separating ex-h and I at her wedding. And when on our first Christmas with our newborn son I got the flu and my MIL came over and demanded to take everyone but me over to the GPILs’ place. So I could be alone and sick. On Christmas. I said hell no you’re not taking my baby. Lots and lots of shit like this. I wasnt doormatty enough -so they hated me.

My stepson (9) thought for a moment after I told him I reckoned I wasn’t the best match for the extended family. Then he says, “Well, I know they didn’t like you because manners are important to them and you weren’t polite to them.”

Hahahahaha.
I can’t even.

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No more

Posted on Wed, Apr. 18, 2018 at 07:50 am

For so many years, i put up with your shitty comments, your refusal to listen, your intrusiveness, your narcissism, but this break from you has been awesome. The only thing is ugh, we have to decide if it’s permanent. The biggest mistakes you’ve made are pulling my kids into your problems with us. That won’t happen again you meddling monster. I truly despise you. You’ve made me question
My marriage because you’re that bad. Both of your children have sought marital therapy iover you. 2 therapists have said to keep your children away from this woman (and Fil as well). 2 have said that you’re personality-Disordered. You’ve been told this by both of your children, yet you think the therapists are wrong. Think my hubbby has finally understood that you’re crazy as a bedbug. But will he use this knowledge or keep ignoring it?

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Don’t choke at breakfast MIL

Posted on Tue, Apr. 17, 2018 at 01:06 pm

Enjoy yourself at breakfast oh dear birth-mother of my husband. You may have slithered your way into our vacation, and guilted a meet with my husband and his brother over a special breakfast you had to plan. Pretty slick pulling the ol “I may never see you two again” textbook MIL crap. Leaves the rest of us to only hope heehee.

KNOW THIS: NO ONE INCLUDED YOU, YOU WERE NOT INVITED. THEY WON’T EVEN MAKE PLANS TO VISIT YOU. HMMMM WHY IS THAT? REMEMBER THIS AS YOU SIT AND EAT WITH THEM AND REMEMBER YOU’RE ONLY TOGETHER FOR THIS BRIEF MORNING BECAUSE YOU COULDN’T HELP YOURSELF, YOU HAD TO MAKE YOUR WAY IN AND NOT BECAUSE THEY WANTED TO SEE YOU.

This is so funny to me because I have begged DH to make special plans just for the three of you. Nope, he can’t stand being alone with you, he needs me as his shield or something. I hate it, we don’t need you. Enjoy this day as if it’s your last, because it is ... there will be no more family gatherings for you to jump in on. Good luck getting anyone to visit ya... insert kissy emoji

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Hypocrite

Posted on Tue, Apr. 17, 2018 at 11:52 am

When my now husband and I first moved in together, we got a lot of backlash from his family.
At first, I wasn't bothered; they're religious and they have their opinions about pre-marital sex. Fine.
Then my future SIL, his youngest sister, sent him a lengthy email about living in sin and telling him that God had made these rules for a reason. Still not so bad.
One month later we find out that this same sister was pregnant with the bastard child of a man almost 20 years her senior, and knew that she was when berating us for living together!
She never apologized for her hypocrisy and my husband has never broached the subject with her, despite knowing how angry it had made me.
Oh well, she's the dumb ass fighting a drunk loser for custody of a child and living at home again at age 25. Karma bitch.

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Jealous daughter in law

Posted on Mon, Apr. 16, 2018 at 03:15 pm

Why would anyone be jealous of the love a son has for his mother? I carried him, nursed him, drove him to sports, boy scouts all his life I've loved him. Why would you be jealous of a mother. But you'll be the first to say "I'm not jealous" but you are weirdly jealous. I can see you being jealous of a pretty friend,a friend's wife or co-worker of your husband because it may become a sexual attraction. But what do you gain by trying to destroy a mother and son love? It's sick! Selfish and cruel. You just are apparently so insecure and self centered that your husband can not love anyone else but you. You need professional help. Seriously. The whole thing is text book mental. I'm not your competition. Your making me hate you also. Your the problem Missy and don't raise my grandkids to be self centered drama queens like you.

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Whole family ganging up on us

Posted on Mon, Apr. 16, 2018 at 08:50 am

Since the engagement, SIL, DIL, SIL, and now they have recruited MIL to gang up on us. They have begun to freeze us out little by little. You know, invites with only his name, toxic baby mama unfriended him on FB because the SIL poisoned her. When they believed I would eventually be gone, they were oh so nice. But now that we are engaged.....war
Fiancees brother said I was pretty once, now SIL is on a rampage and hates me. Other SIL is jealous of me. Now they are picking on a motherless 4 year old boy. I wont have it, I will systematically fuck them up for that. Seriously, they are even poisoning the kids against us or rather me. Why would you teach your kids that it is OK to bully an adult? So very Catholic but cant turn the other cheek. Your mental problems are rubbing off on these kids. Now they treat me poorly, but they really like me! How sick is that....these kids are so confused.
MIL stuck in the middle of these two tired ass hags as if she has to choose who she is loyal to. Mind you, these people are not young. All 30-44 years old. Petty, stupid little digs at me. Now my fiancees son is being recruited to the ragtag bunch, which means we wont see Fiancees grandson. Like ever. It hurts him so much. Maybe I should give them what they want, and leave him. He loves me and the 4 year old so much. Why would anyone be so evil? If I dont like someone, I dont set out to destroy them. I have never said anything mean to these women! I just dont get it. I am so unhappy, because I am obviously causing so much hatred that I often think of suicide. Why should i????? Dont ever, ever move in with a man before marriage. Its a terrible mistake, as I dont have alot of money to escape. He wont give me a car of my own, although he sells them. He is caught in the middle of people that are supposed to love him. He loves me, they hate me and think they can make him leave me. If he wont leave me, they do their best to hurt his feelings. They are sickening, mentally ill monsters. I wish they would just go get a life and find a new couple to bully.
When I lose it, and its inevitable....its gonna be bad. So bad. As in like punching bitches, choking bitches perhaps burning down a house. Blind rage. Bullying is never ok. Not in grade school, high school or middle age. But I can see how someone being bullied can lose it. And badly.
Freezing out my fiancee in hope he will leave me is so mental. My family would never do this. When I dont like someone I dont set out to destroy them. I just act polite and move on with my life.
They are fucking with the wrong bitch. You want to isolate and pick on a motherless little boy? I will do something terrible I promise you...because that is just sick. If this were Game of Thrones, he would be John Snow and Id be Cersei when it comes to my boy I will do anything to protect him. They even planned a party on the same day as my eldest sons wedding, so nobody from fiancees family could come. Mind you I didnt want them to come, but as a courtesy would have invited them just for show.
Keep your crappy concerts, invites and trips to anywhere without us. Go on with your petty mental issues because your hatred of me is YOUR issue. Not mine. Leave the boy out of this or you will regret it. I am not afraid of prison.

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Pregnant Chatter

Posted on Sun, Apr. 15, 2018 at 07:21 pm

Somebody talks a lot of shiz when pregnant but suprisingly goes mum after the babes are born. She is talking about having another, she won't be pregnant in the mouth and I won't put up with any of her shiz this time, she better keep her mouth shut or I will shut her up for her

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