I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Posted on Wed, Mar. 22, 2017 at 04:04 am


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Mother in law is a hag plain and simple

Posted on Wed, Mar. 22, 2017 at 02:35 am

My MIL is a repulsive self indulgent neglectful witch. I first got an idea of the extent of her neglect as a parent when my DH had his first birthday when we were together and she didn't call once. I thought it took the biscuit when they wouldn't come to our wedding because of 'money'' but then when she decided to verbally attack me over over it saying she will never forgive us for having our wedding when she couldn't make it. And even got her golden child shit of a brother in law to attack me over it. On the one year anniversary of my first daughters birth and death, she posted a photograph to Facebook of her dog and titled it 'my baby girls first birthday' yes her dog. (It wasn't even her dogs birthday, not even close, she baked a fucking cake for the goddamn thing, that unsurprisingly keeps it in a cage all the time and I have actually witnessed my FIL punch the poor thing) She makes everything about her, from my nana dying to us not having money to go visit them, she even told me I needed to forgot about my daughter. They have asked us for money, yet are completely reckless with their own, and they both my MIL and FIL shamelessly disrespect my husband, in favour of his siblings, yet the whole family have no qualms in running to him for everything. She forgets birthdays, special occasions, but will have the whole family up in arms if you fail to send a gift for the many ridiculous holidays she celebrates. She's overweight and lazy. Yet repeatedly talks about my diet and weight. She's forever trying to influence my parenting decisions and then gets aggressive when I don't follow her 'recommendations'. My DH told me when he was a child she threw him down the stairs, made him stand in a basin of very hot water, and regularly prevented him from going on school trips (even the free ones) she would take his birthday and Christmas money for 'safe keeping' and wouldn't spend money on decent medicines or shoes or basic things like that but would always find the cash for extravagant things for herself. My husband regularly says when we move house he's not telling them where we are going, and if I'm honest in an ideal world my children won't know who they are. Never in my life have I met such hateful and resentful people. Recently when they found out we didn't have the money to go visit them, she blew the whole thing out of proportion and insisted it was because I have a problem with the hurtful things she says to me (eerrrmmm well clearly I do that doesn't make me a bad person?) nothing is good enough for her and they just want to leech on everyone else's good fortune. Honestly I wish I had never met them. I tried hard with them for the sake of my kids but they can't be grateful or appreciate anything. They just would happily take take take from us until we were out on the street but would sit there on a pile of gold still begging for more.

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Posted on Tue, Mar. 21, 2017 at 01:36 pm

I don't even know where to start. My in laws are the worst people on earth. They pretend to be these one loving family to my dh face but behind his back they straight up mean and horrible people. My MIL still can't get over that her son has his own family now so she calls and texts him everyday. She feels entiteled to know what's going on in our daily lives for some reason. (like what we're doing? what we're eating/ with who? what restaurant? etc.wtf????) Almost like she has FOMO. Always guilt trips dh if he doesn't respond on time or God forbid stoods up for me if there is an argument. Not to mention my dh sister who's the biggest liar and manipulative bitch I have ever met also tries to manipulate my dh against me. They are a bunch of losers living in the same town with boring lives and zero interests other than my dh and mine's life. I used to feel sorry for them but now I just fucking hate them and whish they move to Tasmania or somewhere else far enough with no phone service!Oh and did I mention that they love to plan mine and dh's life??? Like where we should live, how much we should spend etc.?? My dh told them what he thinks after we had a huge fight about it but he still is too soft and to much of a mama's boy. So I took things in my own hands and told them straight up that they are overbearing and overly involved in ours lives and that they need to back off. That didn't go to well because they can't accept that. I don't need their constant presence in my life and what pisses them of even more is the fact that me and dh have a great relationship. Especially his sister can't stand it because she ruined her own marriage by fucking a guy that she reconnected with on facebook. (Told you she's a loser)
Now I don't talk to them at all but my dh of course is still in touch with them because it's his family. I just wish they didn't exisit! Now I understand why some women are into older guys but it's simply because they know they're in laws are most likely dead!!!

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Mama's little whingey weak boy

Posted on Tue, Mar. 21, 2017 at 04:58 am

Finally I am free of DH!!! It's been 15 months since we moved in together and for all that time he has been completely lazy about moving his stuff out of his parents' place. He says he wants the "security" of having a place available with his parents. He's 30. SMDH. His parents by the way are on benefits and living in a council house. Anyway - because the useless FIL is so broke and financially stupid, he doesn't have the money to provide proper care for the sick, suicidal MIL and still lives in public housing. So anyway - the council have power to up and move them within 4 days to a new flat. Because his father can't manage ANYTHING himself, he had to call in everyone to help. All that weak DH had to do was rent a van and go down and pick up his stuff and bring it to his HOME here. But NOPE - all DH could do was cower in fear from his father's anger, and talk about how he should go back and live with them because he couldn't manage out in the world on his own. Even MIL and FIL have been telling him to pack up his things and sort them out for these whole 15 months! By the way his FIL is also a lying cheater, drug user and benefits fraudster. Anyway. The funny thing is, I shouldn't have really tried too hard to get DH to MAN UP and GROW A PAIR OF BALLS and move out of his damned parents house. Because actually - my life will be SOOOOO much better and burden free without all of them in it!!!!!! Last thing that happened was FIL tried to have a go at me over the phone. I told him "I give back your weak son with pleasure!!!" Hehehhehehehehehhehehehehhehehe.

I'm so glad their gene pool is soon to be completely wiped out. :D

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Eye contact

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 12:17 pm

You know when you can't stand someone so much that you can't even look at them...that's how I feel about my mil. Like if I lock eyes with her I'll just end up judo chopping her in the throat. She's the absolute worst.

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Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 12:08 pm


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I'm going crazy

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 10:56 am

He Is Living With Us OMG, my house isn't my own any longer; He is at my table eating my food, in my living room sitting in my sunshine, in my family watching my big-screen TV (sports-turned up to full volume). Also, he is such a racist. Talks down women, blacks, Hispanics, and anyone else who isn't a white male.
Tried talking to my husband about what to do with his dad...no plans...doesn't want to deal with it...the family won't get together to discuss...no one really wants him living with them..and he is too cheap to get a place of his own...
I am really considering getting my own place

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How About...

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 08:09 am

You all stick to making each other miserable, just yourselves and each other and leave us out of it!?

Don't care, don't want to get involved, sick of your shit, lies and drama.

You are all f'd up!

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Plan your own damn party

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 07:30 am

Mil text dh and told him she wants him and his brother to plan a party for fil's 70th. A) your son can barely find his own ass with both hands B) he has never planned, thrown or even gone to many parties. We're not footing the bill for fil on a party and that's what it comes down to. I can't help you had no retirement set in place and are barely scraping by. Im not a f-ing geni here to grant wishes for trips, a free house and parties. You didn't get the trips you hinted to go on, the house you asked dh to buy you and you sure as hell aren't getting a party on our dime. You know how we afford these things for ourselves? By not paying for them for you. You can have the kind of party you gave your son every year. A picnic in the park or better yet we'll celebrate like mine has been celebrated for 22 years. Ignored, not even a crappy card or phone call. Yeah, there you go, party planned.

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I hate I still care

Posted on Sun, Mar. 19, 2017 at 07:27 pm

Sil I hate and love you. I always will. You're a textbook narcissist and a cruel person. You've hurt everyone who's ever cared about you. And I know your tricks. You want me to see your posts and feel something. I don't. I let you go because it's unhealthy to have you in my life anymore. You're toxic. I'm happy you're getting married, let's hope out don't mess it up. But it's all inconsequential to me anymore. You just don't see any flaws in yourself do you? You're incapable of it?

I love you but I hate you. Stay far away.

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