Where Hating Your In-laws is Fun! http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/ Tue, 07 Sep 2010 06:28:57 -0500 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13698 Oh, so DH doesn't answer your call one time, he didn't call you back either b/c he is tired of telling you that you will never see our kids again b/c of the crazy sh!t u pulled! So now you think to get your longtime, fat, cheating boyfriend to call your son?! for 3 days in a row asking if he will come hang out at your house?! WTF is wrong with your thought process B!TCH? MY DH hates your bf and has for as long as you two have been together, dumba**! Your son doesn't want to hear your excuses anymore and he is tired of repeating his self! SO, get the hint, stop calling and stop getting your fat bf to call and give my DH a guilt-trip about coming to your house to see you! HE LOVES ME AND OUR KIDS WAY MORE and would rather spend his time with us! Bottom line: he doesn't care about YOU, so F*** OFF MIL! I Hate My Inlaws Tue, 07 Sep 2010 04:19:14 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13697 ME!DH finally seen you for the evil person you truly are.For you to come over thinking dh was at work,you figure you can lay down the law with me,lol.I didnt let you know or stop you as you were spewing your hate to me and our family.Dh came out and ripped into you and the look on your face was priceless!LOL.Him telling you that you are no longer his mother and for you to never have anything to do with us felt good.After 5 yrs of marriage he finally seen the light.Me and the kids never have to suffer your cruelty again.You are out of our lives for good. I Hate My Inlaws Tue, 07 Sep 2010 02:48:25 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13696 Dear MIL & FIL I wont pretend to like you or listen to your sh*t anymore You can take your opinions And throw them out the door I am a great wife & mother it doesn't matter what you say i don't give a sh*t what you think, anyway You want a relationship with your son? we don't want your f-ing money try being nice, you idiots you get more bees with honey It all comes down to this listen clearly to my voice you can be in our lives or out you still have a choice BUT one more hateful outburst one more unkind word you can kiss this family goodbye we are kickin you to the curb My life will ONLY be better without your sorry ass in my life but you will lose a son and 3 grandkids SO - STOP F-ING with your son's wife!!! I Hate My Inlaws Tue, 07 Sep 2010 02:43:06 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13695 I am totally freaking out. My husband just told me that we are short for rent and I couldn't work out why. I know we are struggling a bit at the moment but I didn't know to what extent. I just found out that we are short because our money has been going to his father. The father who is always starting arguments with me and my husband because according to him we don't know how to budget and who criticises my parents for buying things for our daughter and our baby who is due in a few weeks. I can't believe my FIL constantly stresses us out making us feel like real small people when he has been taking our money. I have been trying so hard to get along with him for my husband's sake but I can't stand him any more. I Hate My Inlaws Tue, 07 Sep 2010 02:10:38 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13694 My mother in law is the most plastic, fake and see right through her-woman i have ever met! When my partner and i first got together she came across as the most caring woman on earth quote "I have sooo much love for my family and i have soooo much to give" she's that convincing i nearly believed her myself! Until i found i out i was pregnant to her perfect boy...Boy did that 'caring' woman change! First she F*****off on holiday for a week because she 'needed time away to get use to the idea' i thought ok...let her get used to it. When she got back she decided to go into self denial and would not acknowledge the pregnancy! Then when my partner confronted her she told HIM that he was not ready to be a father and that she was too young to be a grandmother...Shes 47-she aint no spring F****** chicken! after all the drama the worst news happended we lost the pregnancy. Now the stupid selfish B**** cant get enough of her precious son and he's vise-versa. I feel like f****** them both off and starting a fresh somewhere else with a nice hot orphan-man! I Hate My Inlaws Mon, 06 Sep 2010 21:00:53 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13693 When I told FIL (divorced from Dear MIL 35 yrs. ago due to 2 kids with a neighbor)to find another spot to stay on his escapes from where he lives(sponges off newest/latest girlfriend, 5th or so in 20 yrs.) his reply was "I want to see MY son". No he didn't, ever. He spent the entire visit in a bar until our state banned smoking in a bar. He then "hung around" a bit longer between bars. Not a word, call or card, for his son at birthdays (DH's- I would not expect they'd know mine, although he's been at our house on mine...on the way to a bar) or Christmas or deaths in my family. Get over it FIL. When I finally called you out your answer was to yell louder. And mention you'd babysat DH once for 2 weeks when dear MIL (Your ex-wife)was in training for a J O B to support your 3 kids. That was over 40 yrs. ago. You've been nothing to him. He dreads seeing you as much as I do. Why do you think he didn't call you back? Neither of us want to here. Once, in 20 years, you'd think we'd invite you if we did. Did you ever get invited? No, because you cause irreparable harm every time you're around. Your stories about the rest of the family..those not in the room at the time...have caught up with you. Your snide remarks to me, the one DIL who stuck out the BS from the wolves, out of hearing distance from dear son are way too old. No, we didn't ever get along fine. I gave you a chance because you were an old man, but the last trip...the one when you told us how much better the youngest son fed you...that was the end. You don't need to drive 12 hours to get clams...they sell clams where you are. And don't forget, I DO remember the huge bags of clams that sat when you decided to go to the bar. I don't care if you want pie, or chipped beef, or whatever your order is for the trip. This isn't a diner. I'm not a waitress nor a maid. So when you want a refill on your coffee, get your dirty ass up to get it . And enjoy yourself in the pleasure of knowing that it has taken me at least three days to disinfect my home after you've been in it. I don't need a report every time you visit the toilet. Matter of fact it sickens me. I only wish I heard water running, because your dirty hands sicken me. There is no water shortage here, so quit using it for an excuse. Take a shower. Wash your hands. Brush you gums. In the many years I've known you , it's gone from a dirty old man with a handful of money drawing bar flies to a dirty old man who craps his drawers. Yet is still too stuck on himself to stay home....a word you never learned....home...because when you're kids were small you were out whoring. Your latest young (55) girlfriend may decide she doesn't want to clean up the piss and shit. I only hope she smartens up. Remember when you hooked up with her she had all that money from her dead husband? Now she's working a minimum wage job and you contribute a whopping $40 week for groceries! Wahoo. Bet ya spend more than that at the bar. She's had the pleasure of your assinine behavior for 7 years. I've had it for 20. You may yell louder, but we'll see who wins. I Hate My Inlaws Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:47:43 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13692 WTF sil is your problem I mean for crying out loud my poor Dad had a stroke, my Ma has to tend to the needs of my Dad, cook, clean, and babysit your kids. Why would you invite your friends from overseas to stay at my parents house for 1 month. With all of the responsibilites that my Ma has you make her a maid to your friends. WTF! Why didn't my brother stop this madness? Now I feel bad for my Ma and I am helping out as much as I can so she doesn't get sick! What world do you live in? The world of you and only you? I hope your kids become as selfish as you when they grow up! I Hate My Inlaws Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:24:18 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13690 Wow, Thanks for the wedding gift you gave us BIL. The dull, used kitchen knife you bought at a garage sale which still had a handwritten 50 cent sticker on it! I'm so glad we could cover the cost of your tuxedo rental, hotel stay and booze. You're welcome. Thanks for showing up at my house with your brand new unleashed puppy expecting to spend the night. Surprise on us. Yes, I know you don't "BELIEVE" in cages, SIL. I understand your entire family lives a "free spirit" life-style. But, you see, my town has a leash law, I don't really like dogs, and bringing a dog to spend the night in my home is something you should have mentioned before you arrived. Oh, What? The Television show "HOARDERS" wants to feature you in an upcoming episode? Wow, What a surprise! What? They couldn't find your house because the weeds grew too high and covered the address? Huh? Crazy. What? Oh you poor thing, I DO feel sorry for you. You missed out on the Cash for Clunkers deal because you forgot you had an abandoned car sitting in the grass of your backyard? Of course, it would be difficult to see that car out the windows that have never been cleaned. Thanks, BIL and SIL. I appreciate all the stress you caused my family this week. Glad we could pick up the dinner check again. I Hate My Inlaws Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:14:43 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13689 Here is my letter to the inlaws MIL I understand you have a bond with your grandson that is fine what isnt fine is that you cry and cause problems when he doesnt get to be with you all day everyday what ISNT ok is you calling DHS what will never be OK is you lying to the court trying to make your daughter out to be a Whore My wife is a good woman and a good mother you however are a rotten backstabbing person, MIL this is your ultimatum I have a good skill I can use this skill anywhere in the working world we are moving to Kansas next week if we have problems there with you then we will move sooo far away u will need a telescope to see your grandson. My FIL, it is ok if you control your wife, it is ok if you want to keep her underneath you all you want what IS NOT OK is you lying about your daughter what IS NOT OK is moving her ex husband in with you hoping his statement will help you take your daughters child from her, U are a worthless loser and guess what u are not in control of our lives we are and we will give u an ultimatum if you want it SEE Dear MIL that ultimatum goes for you too chill out on your own or I can help you chill out think about it do you really want that I Hate My Inlaws Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:03:39 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=13688 My in-laws play the role of the caring and devoted grandparents first, as well as numerous other roles. Under the surface, it's another story, entirely. They aren't who they appear to be to people who don't know them very well. In the past when we would go over there, they would moan and complain loudly if our daughter wanted to eat more than one sandwich or one bowl of cereal, making a spectacle of themselves. This was only done when other people weren't around, only when my husband and I were around. When extended family or neighbors were around, it was another act. They would appear all generous, cooking a ton of food and basically trying to shove it down your throat. Odd contrast there. The endless remarks about "how much she ate" got old fast. My MIL was fixated on how much she and my husband both ate. Maybe she was trying to hide her own food binges by passing it off on our kid. Sick, sick, individual. Those comments, coming from a very large woman who isn't so thin herself. Maybe it's just me, but do caring grandparents fixate on stuff like that? Or refuse a grandchild food? This is only one, small area with them in which their words don't match their actions. I wish this is the only thing they have done but there is much, much worse and much, much more. Ugh, I feel like I'm going crazy after dealing with them and their mind games. It's like they are trying to win at something, only what I'm not sure. It's damn strange, for sure. I Hate My Inlaws Mon, 06 Sep 2010 19:09:50 -0500