I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Karma is only a *itch...

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 06:31 pm

...if you are.
And dearest BIL, you truly are!

How does it feel? You haven't spoken to your younger brother, your only sibling, in anyway that warrants mentioning in 6 years.

Sadly, I don't really think you care. And I'm certain even if you do possess that basic human emotion, you are convinced that the cut off was in no way your fault.

You & your then wife fought so hard to ensure your brother & I never married? Why? I hadn't even done anything to you...literally never said an out of the way word to you. Oh right, you were doing mommy' bidding. You, her ever valiant protector!

I possibly could have forgiven many things not that you would ever accept responsibility but the lies that you told can't be undone. The way that you later encouraged DH to leave me & both daughters (one not yet born) when we went through a rough patch is really what cemented your fate.

But I cut you off in the most drama free fashion I could & let life take its course. And have you enjoyed it?

Your wife kicked you out of the home her daddy gave her. She moved in her halfway house bf & conceived his child before the divorce was final.
You moved back in with your perpetual victim mother & now see your kid a few days a week although it seems half the time you pawn that child off anyhow.

Finally you got a gf. Oh but that failed....
And you were fired from your job for making inappropriate comments...
And we hear tell that your quite lazy (not surprised) and you seem to cry more than any grown man I know over getting hurt feelings (hmm I pegged you as a giant baby a long time ago).

And then another girlfriend and we heard more than we ever needed to about how perfect she was from your own mother.
But then she dumped you too.

And I thought women loved 30 year old men that live with mommy still?

All this while your little brother has a girl that has stood by him through more than any sane person should have. He's got love, responsibilities, and children he is actually there for.

I don't wish ill on you BIL, I just have to acknowledge that meddling without true cause in the lives of others does little to enhance your own. I don't know that you'll ever see the choices that you've made have led you where you are.

And most sad is that I suspect you have no interest in repairing your relationship with your brother because you can't bear the thought of seeing him happy & with things you don't have. Your jealousy was obvious then in the little things & I can't see you enjoying his happiness because I suspect you have so little of your own.

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OS and HM (Horrible Mom)

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 01:38 pm

Every year OS gave her six kids birthday parties. No big deal, right? However, a few weeks before the party she would e-mail a list of toys the birthday child requested. Of course they were expensive gifts, such as a motorized Barbie car--the ones kids sit in and drive. WTH?!!! (We RSVP we would not be in attendance, as did most of my other siblings and their families.)

As a young adult, my DU and DA, who lived out of state, invited me to visit, which I did. OS and HM showed up uninvited. I had a set budget and spent wisely. OS went through her money like a whore does lubricant. HM demanded that I give OS $100. My answer was a simple no. They made the rest of the visit horrible for everyone. My DU and DA never invited any of us back. This wasn't the only relationship they ruined for me.

My DH and I were high school sweethearts. We married at 21. The entire time was were dating, OS tried to lure DH away from me. He couldn't stand her, neither could her two ex-husbands.

Thanks for allowing me to vent.

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Big fat Italian nightmare

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 12:07 pm

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have a house and dog together.. We are a same sex couple and my IL's are only just not coming around to this.. After the shunned and kicked out their daughter for a year .. Because they didn't believe that she could be gay, they blamed her friends for making her gay, even though it was obvious to everyone around them for years and nobody batted an eyelid.. Well she is almost 30 and they kicked her out of their house and took her keys on a work night. she was destroyed. So cut to now, my FIL doesn't like us holding hands in public, her mother and aunt are the drama queens of the town talking like rabit teens, her grandmother calls every night and asks me what I made her grand daughter for dinner as if I'm a housewife. Oh not to mention her mother always yells at me to get a better job and sticks her nose into any and eveything she can!! She even calls our puppy her baby.

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Crazy tales from the "hood"

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 11:01 am

In my bedroom when my mother in law upstairs like to go in her closet and move her clothes back and forth, she likes to use strong chemicals in her bathroom to make me get sick, only when I'm upstairs she tries to make her bed up look up to look all elaborate to try to outdo me. Since she let my husband use the extra bedroom for his clothes she feels that I'm in there too much so she wouldid invite a two year old to spend the night who has undiagnosed ADD. When i but something new in the bathroom like new toothbrush or new toothpaste, our new soap she act like something wrong with the plumbing tohave to have an excuse to come in there. Down stairs there is micromanaging every meal I cook and every ingredient. There are baracages to laundry room and garage.Still there is no communication at all just staring and moving things. She a just the a/c in winter and heater in summer. Put my cook food in back of fridge to spoil.
Have wash my dish leave food on it and clean hers with strong undiluted bleach 3x's a day.
She don't say thank you if I trim her bushes and cut her grass for hours or pick up after her son and roll her eyes when in around or scrub chair on floor or haulk out spit and mucus or clink her fork on her plate or fake snore when I'm around.she don't want me to drink her special so she pours in used water back in container not thinking I know. She hides my gifts in barbecue grill or back of closet. She spoils her 35 years sons and hiring people to do yard work. She bought a new SUV in husband name and he is fearful of them.

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Adios!

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 10:41 am

MIL is Lucifer's bitch i swear, may she rip soonest. I am divorcing her son so that they can make babies together, their relationship is JUST SICK.

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Can't stand her

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 04:02 am

My mother in law is always so mean an rotten to me . If I try to be nice to her she will put me down try saying how stupid I am and ect. So my husband wonders why I think she is so evil she is . Never tried to be nice always mean I mean come on since when is it ok to treat your wife like crap I thought that you loved me so stick up for me you big jerk.

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just Stop

Posted on Sat, Apr. 30, 2016 at 02:25 am

You have NO right to say to my kids that if I want another kid that I shouldn't have one. Lady, it is MY body ; MY life. You don't own my body or life. STOP causing stuff.

also, stop overstepping my parenting. And stop being jealous when my family sends the kids things. You want to be a grandparent then be one. Don't try to get more of the SAME EXACT things that my family sent.

And when you bash me in front of my kids or to hubby and you know I am next to him or the kids, I can obviously hear you. What the HELL is your issue? Why can't you let your kids and spouses be happy??? you want a good relationship then CUT THE DIAPER STRINGS and stop the behavior. We are ALL SICK OF IT.

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Control loving inlaws

Posted on Fri, Apr. 29, 2016 at 05:47 pm

I know you won't care but I will never forgive you for what you have put me through.

The accusations and lies are unforgivable.

I hope you're happy that you've done absolutely nothing but make me feel so utterly miserable (because if you weren't happy about it what on earth would be the point in doing everything you've done).

Bunch of no good control freaks who may have been able to manipulate your own son but I hope and pray that MY son sees you for what you really are in due course.

I have never stopped you seeing him..even though I think I'd be completely justified if I did but I'm not a nasty person like you two are!

All you want is to be able to control everything and everyone. I couldn't care less if your business went bust and you lost everything because it would only be a fraction of what you deserve.

Absolutely good for nothing pure evil nasty bastards.

I sincerely hope that karma catches up with you one day.

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DONE!!!!!!!

Posted on Fri, Apr. 29, 2016 at 11:26 am

DH is finally praise the lord finally done with the IL"S!!!!!!!!! The only time they wanted us around is when we could fill a need like needing work done to their house. Now that need is filled they have nothing to do with us. So when Mom's Day comes around don't expect us to be there MIL!!!!!!!!!! You've got a great son, it's too damn bad you're to into what everyone can do for you only to figure it out.

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Don't Care

Posted on Fri, Apr. 29, 2016 at 07:42 am

Why can't hubby understand that I no longer care.at.all. about his mother? I was always low contact because we don't live close by, we are very different people and have different values, hubby doesn't care for his family much so he has purposely kept us at arms length. But I was always nice and cordial and cared. Now I don't care anymore and can't bring myself to pretend that I do. Over the years I've seen how she enables in ways that are absolutely destructive to her golden children and golden grand children. And how her piss poor judgement put my child in situations that I'd never allow him to be in. Being "family" is no excuse. And to expect me to just go along, take her crap and smile - I'm all done with that. Now my husband doesn't understand why I don't stay low contact. He thinks because she is my "family" i have to. I reminded him she is not my family and I don't have to do a damn thing I don't want to. Being no contact has not hurt me and I've lost nothing except the sick feeling in my stomach when I thought I'd have to be around her. I'm so much happier now. He can see her and be in contact as much as he wants. But it is not fair for him to expect me to go along and participate. Why do people believe that because someone gave birth that they have to keep them in their lives? I just don't get it.

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