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Dear In-Laws
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 02:20 pm
The MIL that plays favorites
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 02:16 pm
You can just shove that fake attitude towards my kids up your rear. I see how you are with YOUR daughters' kids.. What about MY kids!!! Each of your grandchildren are equal.. Not one is better than the other!!
Quit playing favorites, you stupid old hag!!!!!!!
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Can I just smack him already!
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 02:08 pm
My son who just turned 4 at the time and was just diagnosed ADHD and his Dad stop in to see my SIL.
So, my husband and son walk into my SIL's house and she had just had a baby. I know, all the hormones that come running through your body when you have a baby, but my son was just talking to his aunt and she yells at my husband "Can I just smack him already?!?" I was waiting out in the car with my daughter, I don't like to hang out at my SIL's house. So, they came back out to the car. I didn't know about what happened until the next day. My husband knows my attitude towards his family and I become very defensive when it comes to MY children!!
So, I find out, and 3 years later have never confronted her, I don't even think she knows I know... But one day I'd love to just smack her across her nasty pothole face!
The nerve of some people, to act that way TOWARDS a little boy!!
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The note
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 01:13 pm
MIL,
I heard about your surgery and hope you get the same treatment you gave me after my surgery!!!
DIL
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It's none of your business
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 09:38 am
My DH and I have no children by choice.
My 6 year old niece came to visit for a week a few summers ago. I really love this kid and we have a great time when we are together. At one point she asked me, "Who are you going to leave all your stuff to?" I asked her, "Why do you ask?" She said her Mommy and Grandma were talking about it. OK, I know these people and I don't trust them as far as I can throw them, but why would they talk about such things in front of the kids? Why is this even a topic of conversation? It's none of their business! Everything we have is through our own hard work, careful planning and we didn’t get any help from anyone. This is something you all know nothing about. We do have wills and when we are gone, whatever is left will go to charity.
I told my MIL what was said and how upset I was with OUR business being discussed. She got very defensive and was angry at my niece for "spilling the beans"! She was mad at being found out and not ashamed that what she did was in any way wrong. God forbid I should know what they are up to. The sad thing is that my niece, who is way too honest, is no longer allowed to spend any time with us. The good thing is that my DH is starting to see these people for who they really are.
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Why Did You Have to Come Back?
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 09:32 am
Dear FIL,
When you packed up and moved west it was the best day of my life, or at least the best day of my marriage. No more interfering, no more surprise visits, no more anything! It was great! Your son & I got along wonderfull!. Not one single blow out did we have after you left. Sure, all couples bicker here & there but for the most part we did not fight. We got along so well I got pregnant! It was by far the best year EVER! I only thought it was a little annoying when you sent us deposit slips for your bank account "just in case". Just in case what? We decide we have too much money and feel the need to donate it to you? Please, you greedy bastard. I didn't even really mind when you bought my husband a gift for his birthday & then made us pay you back for it! It was tacky for sure but at least you we thousands of miles away! When you refused to use your computer until you could get some virus protection put on it, which of course we had to buy you, I ordered it up right away. Why? Because at least you weren't close by. I would have paid anything to keep your annoying, smelly, fat ass in another state.
.......Then the unthinkable happened. You decided you wanted to come home! Oh No! I couldn't believe it! How could this happen to me? I'm a good person, I don't deserve to be tormented by you!
Now of course we had to help finance your trip, and instead of coming straight back you drove way out of your way to go visit cousins you haven't seen in 20 years. They must have found you as creepy and annoying as I do because they wouldn't let you stay at their home while you were in town (although I'm sure you begged, since you have to tact or manners) so we had to pay for your hotel stay.
Now that your home have you paid back anything? Nope, you've bought yourself & one of your daughters plenty of stuff though.
I love how you "forget" any of your bad deeds. It's amazing how you manage to block out all memories of the times you've screwed prople over. You've done nothing but ruin your son's life, his credit (which thank God he was able to fix although I wish he would have pressed charges against you!), and his marriage if you don't die soon. I hate you and the only thing that keeps me from divorcing your son is the fact that you're in such poor health & I hope you'll have the big one soon. Next time you have a heart attack or stroke, PLEASE JUST GO INTO THE LIGHT, PLEASE. I'm begging you. In the mean time before you die, stop showing up at my home unannounced. Stop walking in without knocking. Stop calling my husband 10 times a day. Stop lying to him when he's out of town saying that you came by (without calling of course!)early in the morning & I wasn't home, like I stayed the night somewhere else! Your manipulations aren't going to work. Your son is a grown man & deserves to have his own life without you ruining everything. You're a bad man, a horrible father, and you smell like Old Spice, ball sweat & death!
I hate you.
VERY Sincerely,
your DIL
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The Birthday Party
Posted on Fri, Sep. 03, 2010 at 07:31 am
I asked DH if he wanted to have a family party for our children's birthday. I told him it's his family (my parents are deceased) so it's up to him, I don't care and the kids only care about a party for their friends. He told me to just send out an email invite. I told him that we should find out if his parents (the narcissists) are in town, if not why bother. DH let out a big sigh knowing he had to call his parents. They'll be here! I dread this party. I hate having these people in my home bringing cheap gifts that end up at the Salvation Army. What a complete waste of my precious time. I just wish my poor kids had another set of grandparents who truly cared about them and a DH who knew when to cut the cord.... It's so sad....
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Whenever your ready
Posted on Thu, Sep. 02, 2010 at 10:32 pm
Hahaha sil so your gonna rip my face off? Oh okay! You might want to have your fat ass sister join in to help you, so I can kick the shit out of both of you at the same time!
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starting to realize
Posted on Thu, Sep. 02, 2010 at 07:31 pm
for the past 2 yrs i have been doing evertything in my power to get on the good side of my in laws-well i should say soon to be in laws...it has not worked. they r absolutely pathetic n still hoping that he leaves me to go back with his ex wife, although its been 2 yrs n im the only person he has even spoken to after leaving his ex. his mother still keeps a HUGE picture on the wall when u walk in her house of my fiance n his ex wife on their wedding day, even though OUR WEDDING DAY is in 8 months. she wont even speak to me
it has driven me crazy since i can remember. i have felt like ive wanted to end my very happy relationship over this n i have finally come to an understanding. she is CRAZY, and so is her small minded daughter. i am happy and my fiance adores me. i am going to try my best to just pretend these people are completely dead to me. i have to. i cant let these fools make me into some angry person..pathetic
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Hate is not a strong enough word!
Posted on Thu, Sep. 02, 2010 at 06:07 pm
I met my partner almost a year ago, and the in-laws seemed pretty cool to begin with. The DIL was pretty passive and the MIL loved me. Then, it came to my attention that I was being made to feel like I had taken him off of her. The 'relationship between me and my son just hasn't been the same since you two got together and I miss how close we were'rants began to start. She would call all the time, ignoring me completely of course, and make my partner drive her places in broad daylight (despite the fact that she had a car!) when we had things planned. Both the MIL and DIL were also racist, so I found it very difficult to be around them as I had a lot of foreign friends. The MIL also threatened suicide if he would not drop what he was doing with me to go and be with her and talk about farms and finances and all that boring stuff! Then it gets better -- the BIL insults a member of my family with no justification, and instead of apologising for hurt feelings, the entirity of my partners 6 member family blamed my family!! Since then, I have been excluded, and no one seems to appreciate that I gave up everything for their son. I feel like such a victim of injustice!
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