I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Second Fiddle Mama

Posted on Mon, Jul. 24, 2017 at 04:55 pm

Guess what MIL actually said to my DH.
"I'm tired of being second fiddle."

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Kissing cousins

Posted on Mon, Jul. 24, 2017 at 10:18 am

My MIL just told me that her and my FIL, her husband, are cousins. Distant cousins, but cousins nonetheless. It explains a lot.

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Rolling my eyes at you MIL

Posted on Mon, Jul. 24, 2017 at 09:53 am

I may not have any contact with you but for you to cut off my SIL is stupid. BIL doesn't talk to you and your always raving on FB about how you want to be apart of your grandson's life. SIL was at least sending you pictures and face timing with you to see him. Now you cut her off, how will you have any relationship with your grandchild, you idiot.

Sending a text to SIL's mother saying you'll be swinging by this weekend to see him, IS NOT HOW THIS WORKS!! You need to ask the parents and that means you have to talk to them!

You blocked us because OUR drama. You're the one going behind everyones backs spreading lies to each of your sons and their wives to start shit.. what a pot of crack you are.
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You don't get to ask my husband how my pregnancy is going.. You only pretend to care because I finally have something you want..another grandchild. You're sick!

Sorry MIL, we're a package deal. You don't get to be involved in just your son's and grandchildren's lives. The daughter in laws are very much still around and we might have something to do with the fact there are any grandchildren at all! -_-

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Never Again!!!!!

Posted on Sun, Jul. 23, 2017 at 03:29 pm

My husband does not have much for extended family so I have only met two of his aunts, both lovely woman I really liked and they were at my very small wedding shower as I did not have a wedding. Anyways one of them sadly passed away so I took a vacation day from my job to attend the funeral. My mother in law was so mad I was there as she wanted her baby boy all to herself as we picked her up to take her to the service. Can you belive she said (and not jokingly) You will do anything to get out of work wont you? I so wanted to just walk the 30 miles home but took the high road and said nothing at all. I could have taken a vacation day and did something fun. Another time I had to pick her up to go to a wedding as my husband was in the wedding as an usher. When I picked her up she said "you wearing that" with her disgusted face. We get to the wedding and we have a glass of wine and she got really ugly. (her true colors)while waiting for the wedding party to have pictures done. She sees the bridesmaid my husband was paired up with is a pretty girl and starts making fun of me that my husband is with the most beautiful woman in the room and actually saying Ha, Ha. Really? she is married and they are not on a date like you hoped. anyways she kept it up if front of the entire table we were sitting with. The grooms father was making his rounds and she continued on with her ugly behavior. He actualy asked her to leave and for me to take her home. This is all before even dinner! She puked all over the car on the way home. I never got to eat my meal as I was taking the cruel bitch home. You would think my husband would have made sure a meal was saved for me, nope. I told him I was hungry and he said Well go in the kitchen and ask for something. The sad part is his entire family thinks they have ettiquette skills and I have none. I have never been asked to leave a wedding for being cruel or any reason for that matter!

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Phone Calls

Posted on Sun, Jul. 23, 2017 at 07:57 am

My female in-law made a huge deal about the fact that I never call her at a holiday dinner. I simply said "because I know how busy you are." You think that would be the end of it, but she kept pushing. I told her off and things were never the same. It was like I had a target on my back all the family bullies used to justify their games. My husband was a total Duh at the time. We should have just left the dinner at that point. I cut off contact soon after. The reason I stopped talking to her over the phone was because of all her nasty comments. Ex. She said "I was always out shopping spending all my husband's money." When I told her our dog had an eye infection and needed drops every few hours, she said "well, you don't have anything else to do." We got a new SUV, our old one was over 10 years old. She got a new car every few years. She asked how I liked it, then said " don't have that feature on my car, I'm not as fancy as you." Yep, can't understand why I stopped answering your calls.

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Hurricane Season

Posted on Sun, Jul. 23, 2017 at 04:54 am

Last year a category 1 hurricane hit our area. An in-law we have low contact with started to text my husband to find out if we were ok. My husband said we were fine. Then she started calling, my husband didn't answer. Last text she asked if there was major damage to the beach and resort area. I can just see this bitch show up at our doorstep, thinking she will be treated like visiting royalty. I have no problem telling her we are on our way out the door and can't visit. She is now blocked on both our phones. Don't think you can use a natural disaster as a way back into our lives. I will shut that b.s. down.

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FIL

Posted on Sat, Jul. 22, 2017 at 09:47 pm

I hate your stupid fat face. I hate that you constantly fish for compliments by comparing yourself to your handsome son (DH) who CLEARLY takes after his mom. I hate that you grew a beard after DH grew one and then get mad when people say he grows a better one. I hate how immature and selfish you are. I hate that you are literally the stupidest human I have ever allowed to be in my life, and I hate that you think you're smarter than everyone. I hate that you blame other people for not getting invited to things when it's clear it's because they all can't stand you. I hate that you give us advice on marriage while you sneak off to smoke weed withoit MIL even knowing. I hate that you preach grace with your holier than thou complex. I hate when your other younger sons say racist/sexist/disgusting/mean/hateful things that are clearly from your fat mouth. I hate that every time we leave from a visit my DH is heartbroken at your behavior and embarrassed and feels like he has to apologize for you. I hate your laugh, I hate your jokes, I hate your voice , I hate you. I honestly hope that when MILs mother dies and leaves her a butt ton of money that she leaves your loser ass and you're just as lonely as you fucking deserve.

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How do in laws be so nasty

Posted on Sat, Jul. 22, 2017 at 08:35 pm

My in laws hate me. They have hated me ever since their son stole 20,000 from me left me and used it on drugs and gambling as if it were free cash I handed to him to spend. It drove us apart along with the addiction he had I used to call their looking for him and they would purposely not tell me were he is and answer the phone. I'd cry we had a brand new baby he was a month old! I put missing police etc. they never once would help. In fact they called me a drama queen when I asked for their help with my newborn so I could work my job. They just don't answer. They say no. They in fact told me I don't care about my husband. The whole family is completely selfish and they are the first to bitch when they don't see my son on Christmas cause that's all they care about!!!! That one day to them and that makes them super.... I hate them. Am I wrong here for these feelings?

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Desperate!

Posted on Sat, Jul. 22, 2017 at 04:18 pm

That is what you are.

Trying your utmost to gain control, it won't work of course.

You are incredibly transparent and we are aware of what you are doing, yes, each of us. You don't quite understand that you aren't fooling us or are getting the upper hand.

It is actually quite amusing in a perverted way, your efforts to try and gain control. We talk about it, laugh about it. Even our friends have commented "Good for you!", as some of them have shitty Inlaws they are fedup with.

You just don't get it do you, as your desperation blinds you.

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Stuck in Hell

Posted on Sat, Jul. 22, 2017 at 03:17 pm

Where do I even begin? I met my now husband almost 2 years ago. He lived in a different state than me and so I never really met his family until our engagement party. All seemed well until after our wedding. I moved to his state and because of our culture, it isn't uncommon that the man and wife stay with the husband's family for a period of time. Well it has been 1 year and 2 days now since I've moved here and we are still living with his family and I AM GOING INSAAAANE. At first, nothing seemed out of the ordinary. I must admit, my in-laws have not really been mean to me particularly, but the way they live and think is like nothing I've ever seen before.

After moving into his family's home, I found out that his mom's side of the family has OCD. So both of my sister-in-law's who live with us have OCD. One of the two has a mental illness as well so she's pretty much quiet and keeps to herself all day. The other one, however, is a 40 year old lady and her OCD really annoys me. It's not the fact that she has OCD, I'm really understanding about people with mental health issues because I work in the health care field and have a broad understanding. However, she tries to revolve our lives around her and her schedule and her needs. For example, we have a bathroom in our bedroom, and she HAS to use this bathroom at the same time, every single morning, to take her daily 1 hour shower. It is never less than that. She wakes up around 1pm to do this. She eats her (technically) breakfast when she's done at about 2:00-2:30pm. The reason I bring this up is because her schedule affects ours. If we have plans to do something in the afternoon, she always tries to make us go out at 8pm or after because she has to eat her dinner around 7pm and typically takes a 3 hour nap afterwards. And the thing that kills me is my husband listens to their needs :(

She is so annoying. She likes to control all of the brothers (there are 4 total) and their wives. For example, the other day 3 of the brothers including my husband were all together and she and my mother-in-law decide to come over. Well, they started this whole scene about how they don't have enough babies and they need to have more. (Me and hubby dont have any kids yet and both of my brother-in-laws have two kids each and the two youngest are under 3). All of my brother in law's wives HATE her so much and I've started to see her true colors and hate her too. She always gives her 2 cents when it's not wanted.

The mother-in-law is also very controlling. My in laws have NEVER worked a day in their lives. And I am not exaggerating on that. My mother and father in law are both on disability as well as my both of my sister-in-laws. None of them went to school either. Their lives pretty much consist of sitting in the house all day talking about absolutely nothing important (gossiping about everybody) and going to doctor's appointments WEEKLY. I've never seen anybody go to so many doctor's appointments ever.

Anyway, because of this they are all so ignorant in every aspect you can think of. I had an interview for a cashier's job by their house so I can help my husband financially until I can get my license to work in the health care field again and they made a whole scene about why I shouldn't work and really prevented me. So I'm stuck in the house all day while my husband goes to work while I'm home with these evil people. Now, my mother-in-law tells me that we better never think about moving out. And when my husband brought up moving out to my sister-in-law she through a fit and said he can't leave his parents alone. Wait so you guys don't care that I had to move across the country to marry your son, but will trip if we move 10 minutes away?!?!?! Can you believe that? They expect us to stay with them forever!!! She is so lazy and so needy. Everyday she asks me to make her tea, cut her watermelon, wash this or that. All while she is sitting and complaining. Anyway, I am FINALLY going to visit my family in a few days and will be gone for one month. It's been 8 months since I've visited my family and really need this break. As soon as I get back, I will be looking for a job and I told my husband by September he HAS to move me out. I don't care how he does it, but he better come up with something. Enough is enough. They are too ignorant and too controlling. They even get mad when my husband and I go out together alone.

So sorry for the long lonnnng post and if you've read this far, thank you. There is SO much I have not included that I have been through this past year, but I would have to write a novel to explain everything. I am just living in hell currently and cannot wait to get out. Once I move, I will visit them once bi-weekly and honestly, that would still be too often.

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