I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Marrying Mom

Posted on Thu, Dec. 08, 2016 at 06:56 am

So you had your son come by to meet your "fiancé"

You think he's going to give you away? Lmao, chances are we won't even attend.

Sorry dear but you need to tell that man of yours the truth! You have no relationship with my kids because you suck!

How dare he ask about my children! I know nothing of that man so please refrain from giving him details about my kids!

I know you have him fooled into thinking you are relevant (you know because you've stolen my photos off Facebook & printed them to display in your home (that's why I blocked you)) but the truth has a way of coming out!

I won't allow my family to be accomplices to your lies or participate in your delusions that you are a good person!!

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"HE knows his parent well"

Posted on Wed, Dec. 07, 2016 at 06:51 pm

So my FMIL and FFIL bought my fiancé and me some gifts for our new house. I thought it was nice of them, so I thought it would be nice if we got them a thank you card and a little something for both of them. I remembered FMIL's favorite candy, and where FFIL llikes to eat lunch. So, my fiancé and I went to the store, and bought a bag of FMIL's favorite candy, and a gift card to FFIL's favorite lunch spot.

Mind you, this was all ME who came up with the idea, and who remembered FMIL's favorite candy, and FFIL's favorite linch spot. I was excited to give it to them and show that I appreciated their gifts.

So we go to their house to give them the gifts and hang out. So it goes really well, and my fiancé and his dad go off and hang out in the computer room. So my FMIL opens up the gifts we gave them. She opens up her favorite candy and her husband's guft card. The first thing that comes out of her mouth is "HE knows his parents so well," and then continues to talk about how is was so sweet of HIM to get them a gift. Not even thinking that maybe I had a hand in it before. The only time she said thank you was when my fiancé and his dad came back. Then she thanked us both.

She's done this before, said stuff to me while my fiancé was out of the room. Like once for his birthday, I got my fiancé a gift he really liked, and was excited for. My FMIL got him a gift he liked, but didn't make a big deal over. My FMIL waited until my fiancé went to the bathroom to say "I think he liked YOUR present more than mine." I was really uncomfortable and had no idea what to say.

She knew what she was doing. I'm not sure if she does this to her other son's girlfriend, but I doubt it as she seems to like her.

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mom moved away

Posted on Wed, Dec. 07, 2016 at 03:55 pm

I'm really starting to miss my mom. She moved and now I'm only left with mil. I have no other family members. Before I could avoid my mil and go visit my mom when I pleased. And now I can't. Mil drops by uninvited with married sil. They eat MY food. Mil wolfs it down and sil makes a big point in serving herself a big man portion and taking 3 bites while making a distateful face and throwing the rest in the trash. I find it so funny considering I know my food was great and She can't Even make scrambled eggs. Yet, she's the great mother, and housewife, and I'm NOT according to mil....

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Mil rant

Posted on Wed, Dec. 07, 2016 at 03:49 pm

I'm just so sick and tired of the favoritism toward my sil while dh and I get the hard end of the stick. Mil always babysits for sil. When she rarely babysits for us, WE PAY HER. Sil has a 4 month old and the only thing she knows how to cook is tomato soup. She washes her son every few days (which really isn't that bad) but considering she doesn't do any cooking, or cleaning around the house, I don't understand why she wouldn't have time to bathe the baby every day. Or why mil has to watch her child so that she can do a load of laundry. Are you kidding me? I remember when I came home from the hospital from giving birth. First thing I did clean the whole freaking house because I lived with mil at the time and during the three day stay NO ONE had cleaned one mm surface in the whole house and there was piles of dishes. So there I am, in pain, barely standing(more so leaning against the sink) while I cry because I want to hold and enjoy my baby but the house is dirty and I can't. Even though I cleaned it when my contractions started to avoid this.Yet, now 4 yrs later things haven't really changed. And while sil and her baby are doted on and "perfect" I never get any help or praise and I have two children. And I still cook everyday, wash clothes without help, clean my house without help. Bathe my children every day. Iron my husbands clothes everyday and pack lunch. But nope, they don't like me, they never will.

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I don't get it !

Posted on Wed, Dec. 07, 2016 at 09:05 am

I just don't understand how to not feel hurt when someone is so mean to you all the time and my husband doesn't. I am nice to his mother and she isn't nice to me her tone of voice is terrible. And he does know that and we decided to do our own thing on Christmas . So if he understands why is he so weird .

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Loving it!

Posted on Wed, Dec. 07, 2016 at 06:37 am

I love that u think it's my fault that ur brother/ son barely sees u! Maybe u should all think about ur own words & actions towards me! It didn't have to b this way. Just know that I'm not changing who I am for anyone! U people r the ones with the problem! I guess it's ok to do what u did & say what u said & I am just supposed to come over & pretend everything is wonderful? Not happening! I just wonder do u even miss him?

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The Honest Obituary

Posted on Tue, Dec. 06, 2016 at 08:22 pm

My ILs aren't dead yet. They'll probably live a LONG life knowing my luck. Thankfully me and my children don't interact with EFIL and step monster IL anymore, but just to know they are still lurking around out there, and pop up unexpected from time to time just makes me fantasize about their future obituaries and what a relief it will eventually be for me when they kick the bucket ('tis the season to be morbid, wait..... maybe that was Halloween. Oh well).

The only thing is when people die, no matter how bad they were, their obituaries always paint them as saints. So this is what an honest obituary of them should read.

EFIL- survived by his 3 sons (2 with less than half a brain.. EBILs), a golden wife of EBIL that under all the saccharine charm could care less about him, and one DIL (moi) who hates the very ground he walks on. He is also survived by 5 grandchildren, 2 of which he never really knew, though they were the eldest. He was a selfish narc who refused to admit fault and wouldn't change his ways toward his son and DIL, even if it meant not seeing his grandchildren again. A weakling by nature, he often shrugged his shoulders when others around him were being abused by his second wife, and didn't care about anyone but himself. He leaves behind a legacy of being a pathetic excuse for a father, a detestable FIL, and an unworthy grandfather. In lieu of flowers for him send your gifts to a worthier cause such as Big Brothers Big Sisters, where people are actually a positive influence in children's lives who might have a pathetic father like EFIL. But we're sure his troop of enablers will waste their money on nice arrangements anyway to make him look good even in death.

Step Monster IL
Survived by three stepsons their 2 wives (one of which believes she was the devil incarnate) her dysfunctional, low class adult children and the next generation of dumb rednecks. She was a wretched woman who loved to tear people down and caused drama everywhere she went. She had the emotional maturity level of some 2 year olds, but a good number of toddlers were better behaved than her. She especially liked to single out individuals and target them with others in order to 'fit in' and feel 'loved' by the low class clique. An insanely jealous woman, she was also a terrible cook and we are all glad her cabbage rolls will RIP with her. In lieu of flowers for her send your money to worthier causes such as the 'Rabid Animals Foundation' to remember her legacy of viciousness.

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1 glorious year

Posted on Tue, Dec. 06, 2016 at 06:43 pm

In a few days will be 1 year since FIL kicked the bucket. Not having that old goat around to piss me off has been glorious. I hated him. Now if only MIL would kick the bucket already. She's expensive to support. Plus she's a moron that LOVES to manipulate people.

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Now that you want something

Posted on Tue, Dec. 06, 2016 at 01:40 pm

Motherinlaw, we have spoken once on the last 6 months (a conversation where you slagged off 2 other female inlaws in the family!). I cannot handle the onslaught of calls/texts asking what to purchase our kids for Christmas. I do not even know what I am going to buy them. Here's a novel idea, why don't you speak to the grandkids and ask them what they want. Kinda like a conversation maybe if you are lucky the beginning of a relationship. Otherwise call your damn son (my husband their father) because I am not ready, able or willing to supply you with gift ideas.

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Dear MIL

Posted on Tue, Dec. 06, 2016 at 01:17 pm

Dear MIL, please fuck off putting my pictures on your social media, we have already asked you not to do so, you entitled spiteful, yellow toothed 800 a day smoking, munchousens by proxy having, less than human rat.

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