I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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I poisoned your Granddaughter against you? WHAT?

Posted on Sun, Mar. 29, 2015 at 04:48 am

MIL & FIL,

I know you. I know nothing I can say will make you see anyone else's point of view. You are wrapped safely in your cocoon of self righteous indignation and will never have the capacity to objectively view your own faults. You are quick to point them out for others and your observations are many. However, you have been, and always will be, blind to your own.

One day you are going to die and it will be without the love of your one and only grandchild. That's enough to make me weep for you if I wasn't so disgusted by you.

Your Granddaughter is amazingly talented. However, you are both so selfish that you didn't make the time or effort to come to her events despite living in the same town. You should be proud of her, but for reasons beyond my comprehension, you are not. You wouldn't even watch the many newscasts she was in even though the links were conveniently emailed to you.

Your Granddaughter is shy and has social anxiety. You don't know this, because you haven't been part of her life. You are like the many people that judge her unfairly without trying to understand her first. You are part of the “them” that your son and I constantly have to fortify her defenses against. You should be part of the “us.”

Your Granddaughter is witty and fun. You don't know this because you are part of the “them” that she retreats from.

Your Granddaughter is intelligent. You don't know this because you've never taken the time to ask her what she's studying.

Your Granddaughter is empathetic and insightful. You don't know this because you have only patronized her and spoke to her as if she is not worth listening to.

Your Granddaughter is deathly allergic to nuts. You were told this when she was diagnosed, but that wasn't important enough for you to remember. Yet, MIL, you were dismayed that I wouldn't serve the nut crackers you brought to Christmas dinner! FIL, you are a doctor. You should understand what anaphylactic shock is.

You have made this rift, but it is so much easier to blame it on me. You bemoan the fact that you have no relationship with your Granddaughter and tell others that I have poisoned her against you. It would hurt if I thought it was true, but it is not. It does makes me incredulous and furious at your audacity. She has made her own independent observations about you, but you will never believe this. It is so much easier for you to foist the blame on me, rather than truly owning up to the fact that you have your own shortcomings.

You have lost. Sadly, this wasn't a win or lose game. This wasn't a game at all. You just needed to invest your time, love, and support. You lost because you didn't give.

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Sycohpantic suck up in laws

Posted on Sat, Mar. 28, 2015 at 06:06 am

You do nothing but use your daughter as an excuse to come over to my fucking house and eat my food. I take care of your daughter because she has a disability, she is a strong and successfull person in her own right, yet you view her as either damaged goods or a dissapointment. The only reason you sycophants want to come over is because you like the fact that ive got money. I hate you soulless fucking leaches so damn much and yet i dont have the heart to stop your poor daughter from seeing you, she still hopes that their is some sembelance of parental love in your relationship. All i see are two dryed up self obsessed money grubbing husks out to get as much as they can for themselves.

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SIL, I found the child you threw away

Posted on Sat, Mar. 28, 2015 at 02:24 am

SIL- I met your son today, the one that you gave away over 4 decades ago. He's a great guy, handsome and intelligent. His adoptive parents raised him well.
You were living with your parents when you got pregnant and didn't tell them anything until you went into labor. I'm sure that your mother (my MIL) knew what was going on but lived in denial like she always did. She was a terrible mother and I am certain that if your son had grown up under her roof, he would have been as messed up as you, DH, and your sister are.
I don't understand why you couldn't have taken advantage of all the programs that your area had for single mothers though. Why did you still live with your parents after they so cruelly forced you to give your son up? They didn't even allow you to hold him when he was born, demanding that the nurse whisk him away immediately and didn't even tell you if your baby was a boy or a girl. They treated you like shit constantly afterwards. Why did you put up with it? Your parents had so many faults of their own and they were the last people on earth to start finger pointing.
Lastly, I don't understand why you refuse to see your son now. He's grown and middle-aged. He wants to see you before you get older and die. Are you still clinging to your parents' demands to deny that he was ever born? Your mother is dead and your father is an old, bitter man who is facing the consequences of being a terrible father, father-in-law and terrible grandfather to your siblings' children.
Your son was lucky that you gave him away to a family that raised him in a loving home. Your parents had the opposite: Physical abuse, screaming, fights, mental torture. He escaped the generational cycles of abuse that permeated your family for generations. The one thing that you could do is to see him and try to explain about why you gave him up. I think you owe him that much.

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fil, you suck

Posted on Sat, Mar. 28, 2015 at 12:48 am

You are manipulative and I'm starting to doubt my relationship with your daughter because the shit you put me trough. I listen my gf rant because you critisize her about her decicions in life. I'm an easy going guy and trust my decicions, you just think that there are no room for mistakes in life. You don't like me because I don't fancy sports like you do. Fucking idiot wake up to this world. I love your daughter, but the tought about having my children near you amd you making them like you and manipulating them to do things like you want makes me fucking sick.

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MIL should die

Posted on Fri, Mar. 27, 2015 at 11:30 pm

I wish my MIL would die. She is 90 soon. But no such luck, she is in great health. It would be so much better for everyone. She is such an unpleasant person, always puts the blame on others, nothing nice to say about ANYONE. I will not be sad when she dies. I wish I could like her but even her voice makes me cringe ! I wish someone out there would post a story about a wonderful MIL.
I know they must be out there.

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Husband's family

Posted on Fri, Mar. 27, 2015 at 11:22 pm

The easiest way to deal with them is simple, when they call, don't answer.
When you see them, say as little as possible, a few words here and there.
That way nothing can be "misinterpreted" and better still... No news, no gossip !

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ex bil

Posted on Fri, Mar. 27, 2015 at 10:30 pm

You messed up. My sister got the better part of it all.

Have fun with your whale.

Sis is doing great.

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learn to handle money

Posted on Fri, Mar. 27, 2015 at 10:26 pm

So mil, how long til the new shaggin wagon gets repo'd? And when you get evicted again, your current hubby can move in with us. You're shit out of luck. I would rather beat my crotch with a sledgehammer than spend one night in the same house as you.

That's an improvement though, at least now I don't want to get committed over the holidays to be away from you.

Or want to drill my eardrums out anymore because of your hideous voice.

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that time of year again

Posted on Fri, Mar. 27, 2015 at 10:17 pm

Oh mil,about that time of year for you to wear those cutoff sweatpants short shorts again. I mean who wouldn't want to see you in those. Yummy. If they were any shorter, your pubes would be sticking out. You're 51. Dress like it or are you looking for a little something to hold you over while DH is at work. Again.

Think God almighty that your daughter isn't as crazy as you. Sometimes I see it in her a little, then realize what a turd of a parent you are so I can overlook it some.

And by the way, take a bath. The other day when I came in and you were lounging around my house like you own it, I could smell your stinky lady parts. At least that's what I think. You may just be a filthy person. Who knows.

Btw, your husband thinks you're a bitch he told me so.

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@&$

Posted on Fri, Mar. 27, 2015 at 04:27 pm

How dare you make unreasonable demands on me! I owe you nothing! I will not do any favors for you.

Then, you have the nerve to act wounded and that no one says well looks like someone did.

Yes, me a mere woman, imagine that you male chauvinistic pig!

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