I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Wow

Posted on Mon, Jan. 26, 2015 at 04:51 am

You think you know people

Little spoiled brat who threw your sons' father out so you could get a booty call with someone undeserving, then using children to manipulate situations to your advantage to have an excuse to see your (you and about 6 others dumbass) lover?

I thought were kind and smart turns out your devious, lazy, cruel, and a fat slut

I hope my brother catches you both - actually I have better revenge plans for you idiots. You shouldn't have messed with my nephew!

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LIAR AND SELFISH IN-LAWS

Posted on Mon, Jan. 26, 2015 at 02:40 am

I've got the worst in-laws ever! and these good for nothing people mde numerous attempts to destroy my marriage. My MIL is the ultimate liar, best actress. She always want to be in control. She asserts her authority all the time expecting everyone will just go along with her plans. Well, thanks to her foul words and lies I am now free. My sons and I are no longer expected to visit her not even on holidays and family reunions. Such a relief. And since my husband wouldn't go to their gatherings without us, My MIL no longer sees her beloved son too. It's the best revenge. At long last, my husband was able to see that his mother and siblings would like to tear us apart and finally stood up for us. Now my husband no longer calls them nor visit them. Ha, ha ha! I know my evil in laws are unhappy and have aged sooner than expected because of sadness because my husband no longer sees them even on Christmas and death anniversary of my FIL. Well, i know my husband is affected and sad too. But it's a good thing. They know my husband is torn apart and since my husband is also unhappy it makes his mother and siblings a lot unhappier. Yes, i totally hate them and would not be saddened in anyway if they all pass away soon.

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You win! You can have him!

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 11:28 pm

From day one you thought I wasn't good enough but from day one apparently he's just a cheating lying bastard you freaked out when I was pregnant but yet I was the one pregnant why should I walk on egg shells around you? Oh but then you want to be totally involved because I was having twins and how cool is that the say you're going to be the grandmother twins and I let you back into my life and I do as a backstab me and your son my husband wasn't lying prick just constantly like to talk to other girls online even the week before we got married so you know what you can have them back I hate him I hate you I never want to see any of you ever again!!

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Fake Family...

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 08:22 pm

So its my birthday today. No one in my husband's family wished me anything, but instead wishing happiness and success my teenage niece in law having twins. This is her second and third child: she is 19. My MIL had said that she knew that I wouldn't give her six grandchildren like her other DILs, therefore single me out and hates me for it. She is happy that her granddaughter is having lots of kids like she did at her age.
I want a career as well. Your son will never make me a housewife, and he wants me to follow my dreams! 1 child is good enough, and to the whole family.... I'm glad you guys no longer insist of being nice to me. Personally, who needs welfare collecting, no job, no life idiots like you? DH stays away from all of you because you all drive him insane.

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I Just Need to Say This ...

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 05:32 pm

I hate you MIL. I suppose it began when you tried to stop your son from marrying me. No, I was not expecting. Did you ask your daughter the same question when she got married? Nope.

I despise you FIL. You are not clever. I know you talk about me behind my back. It doesn't hurt me, it hurts your son. Do you talk about your daughter's "can't-hold-a-job" husband? No, you like him.

I hope you both grow a conscience. The way you treat your son is unforgivable.

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MIL keeps trying to Pee Me Off

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 03:44 pm

So as well as sticking your nose into every thing for the past 12 years of our relationship & caused all sorts of hell, you've decided to 'stalk' your own son & act like I'm the other woman!

Well, listen & listen good.... you can say whatever catty comments you want about me cause guess what...we are moving & you're not going to have his number or our address, he's had enough, I've had enough..12 years of this!!

We will be getting married & having children and there ain't a damn thing you can do about it!!

King Regards,

Your (worst nightmare) daughter in love xx

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Stand off.

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 02:04 pm

You are a very negative, gossip and drama fueled family.

You're causing my husband a terrible amount of stress. You know it, yet you continue to act like 5 year olds.

I think what makes him most upset is that he sees that his family could keep pulling the same sick co dependent bullshit and allow the same crap to continue, even though it is tearing him apart.

You need to own up to all of the OBVIOUS bullshit you've pulled over the years and apologize to the both of us.

Otherwise...

That's not love. That's not even close.

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Mixed Feelings

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 01:07 pm

It's been 18 months. 28 months since you demanded that your 39 year old son leave me - his wife and partner of 15 years, and the mother of his four children. 18 months since I found this out. 18 months since I couldn't take it anymore and attempted suicide. 18 months since I walked out of a psychiatric hospital days later on the advice to cut you all permanently from my life.

It's been 18 months since I last had any contact with you. My husband is still trapped in your controlling web. He still sees you. Still talks to you. But the tables have turned. It used to be me who told him of how awkward and awful our visits were. Now he comes home from his meetings with you and it is I who comforts him.

It's been 18 months since you saw your grandchildren. During that time your eldest granddaughter has had a baby. She was relieved that you were off on another holiday when she gave birth. It meant that she didn't have to see you. It could be all about her and her baby.

At Christmas time I gave the other children the option to see you. All three of them said no. You see, they saw the eye rolls, heard the uttered insults, felt the uncomfortable awkwardness. They are my children. They love their mother and they do not need to spend time with people who are mean and cruel. In any case you don't have much of a relationship with them as you were never really there.

18 months of guilt. I've felt that it was me who drove a wedge into your family. But then I remember that the definition of your family does not include me in it. So, where does that place the people I have birth to? They are my family. My husband is my family. I still don't think you understand that.

18 months of relief. You finally revealed your true feelings to my husband. All those years of telling him what I saw/felt/heard, only to be told I was imagining it. I am grateful that you did the work for me. My husband and I are so much closer than before. He thought he'd nearly lost me. So now he listens, is more present and is sorry he put me through knowing you all those years. He's more protective and agrees that I never should have to see or speak to you again.

Darlings, I'm not going anywhere.

18 months of thinking and worrying about the future. Children and grandchildren should be at family events (70th birthdays, Christmas parties, christenings). I give my children the choice and they always say no. But do they do that out of concern for me? I doubt it. They remember.

18 months of preparing my sad face for when I hear that you have died. Bring on that day. I haven't quite perfected it yet. I think I'll say something to the effect of "Oh. I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do to help?", and than hope like hell that I can have the satisfaction of hearing my own children refuse to attend your funeral.

After the last 17 years I deserve a little fun with this right?

I'm the mother and grandparent now. Sad to lose your place isn't it?

I did learn how not to be a crap mother in law/grandmother. So thank you for that. But I do have to spend the rest of your life feeling sad for you that you never experienced family the way that we are.

Hope to never see your miserable faces again.

X

Your son's wife

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I haven't finished getting over the last one yet!

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 07:45 am

I couldn't believe it when my husband brought up that the in-laws are wanting to know what the arrangements are for this Christmas!!!!
How I reacted when he told me that? Well put it this way, about 10 seconds later I had my head down the toilet being violently sick with total anxiety and general dread.
I told him to tell them that we'll get back to them later on in the year about that.

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Ungrateful INLAWS

Posted on Sun, Jan. 25, 2015 at 01:37 am

I hate my MIL, FIL, and BIL! They always defend my husband and never put themselves in my position. I can't understand how they are so blind to his bullshit. I'm always the bad guy even though I AM the one who always involves them in their grandchildrens lives. I go out of my way to be kind to them and they take me for granted. Not anymore... I'm done.

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